Case No. EWFC-63

63.Whilst often simply repeated by rote in these type of judgments, it is important to set out that I am quite clear that the mother genuinely loves both of these children very much. When analysing her care of them over many years, it is very important to be aware of how difficult it will have been caring for Y, and the pressures and strains, whilst also trying to care for H.64.It is quite apparent the mother has tried her best. She has tried to understand all of the medical terms, but it appears to be part of her functioning that she is simply unable to truly grasp the issues, and unable to flex and adapt in the way necessary when caring for someone whose needs are as complex as Y’s. Her difficulties also mean she cannot parent H to the necessary standard. 65.I accept that there were some aspects of findings sought within the finding of fact hearing, where the mother was able to reflect and accept some of the difficulties.66.In general, she is able to keep her home at an acceptable standard. While she does struggle with food and nutrition, the children were fed. 67.The mother has always been willing to do courses, and she will always meet with professionals, even if she does not agree with them.68.It is an interesting aspect of this case that when her parenting is assessed by way of parenting domains, she is able to set out acceptable answers in relation to many of those aspects, although sadly she struggles to then put those into effect.